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The Umpteenth Journal Attempt

(Hopefully) daily ramblings from the hazy mind of Hasief Ardiasyah

Monday, May 10, 2004

Doctor Love is in 

Had a shot at playing impromptu love advisor via Yahoo Messenger:

Q: I have a boyfriend, and I can see myself having a future with him. There's nothing wrong with him, except for the fact that I don't think I love him as much as he loves me. To make matters worse, there's this other guy, whom I know I won't have much of a future with, but I feel like I have chemistry with this guy. I'm not going to leave my boyfriend, so the question is: how do I forget about the other guy?

A: Stack up all the good points of your boyfriend against the good points of the other guy. If there's nothing wrong with the boyfriend, then it's just a matter of letting the chemistry between you grow. As for the other guy, you already know that any relationship you try to pursue with him will eventually come to nought, so why waste your time and feelings on a dead end? Save it for someone who deserves it.

Our session ended there 'cos I had to go out, but my solution prompted her to declare in apparent surprise that I was wise. Heh. I'm dishing out what I feel I'd do if placed in the same situation...but would I actually practice what I preach? I'm keeping my feelings under check because I don't want to waste them...but holding back is killing me, because I've got nowhere to channel them properly. And by properly I mean someone with whom I can have the kind of relationship I'm looking for. And the kind of relationship I'm looking for is...a long story, which I might talk about next time. Right now my eyelids are going up and down like a busted toaster. So I'm off to bed, again thinking about the woefulness of life. D'oh.
posted by Hasief  # 5/10/2004 12:00:00 am
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